An effective cue for this is to "show off the chest" just like in the deadlift. The thoracic erectors arch the upper back to give the chest muscles better lines of action to the upper arms.
Lift your chest and lats while leaving your hips down. Try to spread your chest up to the bar, and use the appropriate leg action based on your foot position to keep your butt glued to the bench.
I want you to think about bringing your chest to the bar... That's going to keep your upper back tight and extended and that's gonna keep your lats tight.
As she brings down brings the bar down, we're trying to reach up to the bar with her chest...It's become a very common practice for athletes to lift their head off the bench, and unless you're very very mindful of it, then as the head comes up, the chest will often come down and the
chest will sort of retreat from the bar and that can cause a loss of upper back positioning. It can cause a loss of tension. It's also going to cause you to have to move the bar a further distance... You shouldn't need to lift your head...just be mindful of keeping your chest as high as possible throughout the lift.